Writing a speech and offering it at a funeral can be very stressful. If you have been asked or are expected to do so at an upcoming funeral, here are a few ways to make things easier during an already difficult time:
Invite Others to Help Write the Eulogy
If you feel stressed about writing a eulogy, you are not alone. Many people feel ill-equipped to handle such an important task, especially if they have limited writing or speaking experience.
There are many ways to sidestep this issue. If you and your family decide not to have a professional, such as a clergyman or staff at your local funeral home in Lafayette, handle the job, asking your loved ones to contribute to the words you will say is a great way to take some of that stress off your shoulders. Post on social media, ask your family and friends directly to pitch in ideas, or write a section of your speech for you. This way, not only will you have less to worry about, but the resulting eulogy will also be more personal and represent more of the people who are grieving your loved one’s loss.
Host an Open Mic
Sometimes, the most heartfelt words come from the heart without any preparation. Offer guests at your loved one’s funeral these sincere words of love and remembrance by offering an open mic to everyone in attendance. Let attendees know in advance if they prefer to plan their words or make them truly on-the-spot to ensure that everyone present is speaking from the heart.
Skip the speech.
No one can tell you and your loved ones how to mourn or memorialize your friend or family member. You may choose to forgo the formal eulogy speech altogether, opting for something more nontraditional. Many families choose slideshow presentations, music, photo displays, or other ways to share their love and memories with one another. However you choose to mourn, rest assured that it is exactly the right way for you and your loved ones to do so. If you find yourself confused or needing assistance, reach out to the staff at Queen of Heaven Cemetery & Funeral Center today.
